“The saddest thing a man will ever face is what might have been. But what of a man who’s faced with what was? Or what may never be? Or what can no longer?” I heard this sentence today and it moved me, but i guess it’s human nature that we will never stop wondering about that, how would it be if we handled it differently, what have we done to ourselves that we no longer are the persons we were meant to be, could it be fixed?
The phase of regret will shape our characters, sometimes for better and sometimes for worse, that is for us to define, when we reach that place some of us stand up and decide to go through the right path no matter how tough it can be and it’s never easy, but sometimes we need to follow our hearts and make real steps towards the tough world, to rise above all our misfortunes, our mistakes and our sins, and become that one we thought we were.
But the problem is when that regret grows deep down our hearts to keep reminding us of all the times we failed and that we are no longer able to be the same, then we decide to give up and hide away, but all we really need is to be accepted again, someone to remind us that it’s not our fault, someone to believe that after all we will be ok.